Heartwarming and enjoyable. But also disturbing and worrying.
Filip Hammar is worried about his 80 year old father, Lars, who seems to have almost given up on life. He is, his son says, rotting away in an old armchair. So, with the agreement of his mother, he plans a road trip to France with his dad. Lars, once a French language teacher, was always a Francophile, and many of Filip’s happiest memories with him are centre on holidays in a seaside town on the Riviera.
So he buys a lovely old orange Renault 4, like the one dad used to drive, ropes in best friend Fredrik, and the 3 of them set off. Plans are disrupted when Lars ends up in hospital just as they are about to leave Sweden, but eventually the trip continues. Along the way, and at their destination, Filip arranges for his father to see old places, old friends, and some carefully staged incidents, all designed to bring back memories and rekindle Lars’ feeling for life.
There are some genuinely moving moments, where the old Lars almost resurfaces, and sadness at seeing Filip come to some acceptance that things can never be as they were. There is a sweet scene near the end where some of the teacher’s ex-pupils pay tribute to their mentor. Cue tears all round.
But. This is filmed as a fly on the wall documentary, meaning there is some sort of film crew present for some intimate moments. I read the Filip and (the very likeable and funny) Fredrik are a bit like Sweden’s Ant & Dec, famous presenters who always come as a pair. Obviously wealthy, and obviously well connected with the TV world. Which begs some questions…
What came first? Filip’s desire to help his father, or the idea for the film? Because the filming took place from an early stage of the process (I did not get the impression they could have gone back and asked Lars to act some of the early stages…). There’s also a queasy sense that Filip, for all that his love for his parent shows as genuine, was at times bullying and manipulative. It can come across as a rich man spending money to show off his love, whilst producing something box-office-worthy.
Call me cynical, but for all it’s virtues, there are some worrying undercurrents to this film.